How To Develop Your Decorating Eye: 6 Simple Tips To Get Better At Decorating

Learn how to develop your decorating eye with simple tips to get better at decorating and create a more cohesive home.

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Want to get better at decorating your home and feel more confident in your choices? The key is learning to see your home differently.

I’ve always been creative, and over time, I began to develop a sense of beauty, order, and how things work together in a space. It didn’t happen all at once. It came little by little as I tried things, made mistakes, and learned what made a room feel right.

At some point, I realized there were simple things I could do to make what I was decorating look better. I also learned that decorating principles work again and again, no matter what I’m decorating. That was a big turning point for me.

As I continued to learn and use those principles, my decorating eye became stronger, and decorating started to feel much easier.

You don’t need a design degree or special training to create a home that feels pulled together and comfortable. What makes the biggest difference is learning what to look for and how to recognize what works.

If you’ve ever felt like something in your home is just not quite right, but you can’t put your finger on it, you are not alone. That feeling usually comes from not knowing exactly what needs to change.

That’s where developing a decorating eye comes in.

Once you understand what a decorating eye is and how to use it, decorating becomes much easier and a lot more enjoyable.

What Is A Decorating Eye?

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A decorating eye is the ability to look at a space and see what works and what does not.

It helps you notice things like balance, color, scale, and how pieces relate to each other. Instead of guessing, you begin to understand why a room feels pulled together or why something feels off.

A well-trained decorating eye allows you to make better choices, use what you already have in smarter ways, and create a home that feels comfortable and cohesive. And the good news is this… a decorating eye is not something you are born with. It is something you develop over time by paying attention, practicing, and learning what works.

The more you use it, the stronger it becomes.

How do you develop a decorating eye?

To develop a decorating eye:

  • Define your decorating style and color palette
  • Take photos to see your space clearly
  • Adjust and refine your decor over time
  • Study well-decorated rooms
  • Practice patience as your home evolves

Know Your Decorating Style And Color Palette

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Do you ever find yourself saving beautiful rooms, buying things you love, and then wondering why your home doesn’t come together the way you hoped? Or maybe you already have pieces you really like, but something still feels off. The room just doesn’t feel settled or pulled together.

Most of the time, it comes down to not knowing your decorating style clearly.

When you understand your style, decorating gets so much easier. You start to recognize what works in your home and what doesn’t. You make decisions with more confidence and less second-guessing.

Decorating Style Tip: If you’re not sure what your style is, look at your home and notice what you repeat. The colors, shapes, and materials you use again and again are a good clue to your natural style.

And just as important is your color palette.

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I’ve said this many times because it’s true: so many decorating problems come back to color. When colors don’t relate to each other, a room can feel disconnected, even when everything in it is pretty. A room can quickly look confusing when colors compete.

A simple, consistent color palette helps bring everything together. It gives your home a sense of order and makes each space feel more finished. A color palette also works as a shopping guide. It helps you focus in and choose only what will work in a room.

Color Palette Tip: Choose 3 to 5 colors and repeat them in different ways throughout your home. When colors repeat, your home will automatically feel more connected and pulled together.

Once you know your style and colors, decorating feels less confusing and much more enjoyable. You are not guessing anymore. You are making choices that work.

If you want help getting started, take a look at 6 Steps For Finding Your Unique Decorating Style and Mastering The Art Of Choosing The Perfect Color Palette. They will walk you through it in a way that feels very doable.

Take Pictures To Improve Your Decorating Eye

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One of the easiest ways to get better at decorating is something you can do in seconds… take a picture.

When you snap a photo of your space, you see it differently. The camera has a way of showing you things your eyes skip right over.

You might notice a lamp that feels too tall, a grouping that looks unbalanced, or a color that does not quite belong. Little things become much easier to spot.

I use this trick all the time. I’ll style a space, take a quick picture, and almost right away, I can see what needs to change. A small adjustment here or there can make a big difference.

Think of your phone as a helpful decorating tool. It gives you a fresh look at your home and helps you make better decisions.

If you try just this one habit, you will start to see your decorating eye improve very quickly.

Keep Adjusting And Tweaking Your Decor

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Here’s something that might surprise you… Most spaces don’t come together on the first try. Even experienced decorators move things around, step back, and make changes until everything feels right. That is just part of the process.

When I style a mantel, a table, or a shelf, I give myself time to work with it. I move things, take something away, add something back, and keep adjusting until it starts to feel balanced and comfortable.

Then I step back and look at it again. And very often, I make a few more changes. Then I leave it for a little while and come back later. Seeing it with fresh eyes almost always helps me notice something I missed.

A well-styled space usually comes together little by little. It is not about getting it perfect the first time. It is about being willing to adjust until it feels right to you.

The more you practice this, the more confident you will become. Over time, you will trust your choices and your decorating eye will get stronger.

Learn From Beautifully Decorated Homes

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One of the best ways to improve your decorating skills is to pay attention to rooms you love.

When you see a space that feels especially inviting, take a moment and really look at it. Instead of just thinking “that’s pretty,” ask yourself why it works.

Is it the color palette? The mix of textures? The way items are grouped together?

When I find a room I love, I like to study it a little more closely. I often break it down into sections and look at each part on its own. It helps me see the details more clearly and understand how everything works together.

Learning Tip: When you see a room you love, don’t just admire it. Pick one thing from it and try it in your own home. One idea at a time is how your skills grow.

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Pay attention to what was used, how the colors relate, and how the pieces are arranged. Then think about what you could try at home with what you already have.

This is such a helpful way to train your decorating eye.

Give it a try. The more you look and learn, the more confident you will become.

Over time, you will begin to notice patterns and ideas that work again and again. And little by little, those ideas will become part of how you decorate your own home.

Use Fewer Things And Give Them Space

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One of the best ways to improve your decorating eye is to use fewer items and give them room to breathe.

It’s so easy to think that adding more will make a space look better. But very often, the opposite is true. Too many items can make a room feel busy and unfocused, even when everything is beautiful.

When you remove a few things, you start to see what really matters. Your favorite pieces stand out, and your room begins to feel calmer and more intentional.

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I often take things away when I’m styling a space. Then I step back and look again. Most of the time, it looks better with less.

This is also a wonderful way to train your decorating eye. You begin to notice balance, spacing, and how each piece relates to the others.

If something feels off in a room, try editing instead of adding. You might be surprised how much better it looks.

If you want more ideas for decorating with fewer, well-chosen pieces, you might enjoy reading Simple Decorating: How To Decorate With Less. It shares easy ways to create a home that feels calm, intentional, and beautifully put together.

Be Patient As Your Decorating Skills Grow

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One of the most important things I’ve learned over the years is that decorating takes time.

A home that feels pulled together does not happen overnight. It comes together little by little, as you make changes, try new ideas, and figure out what works for you.

That means giving yourself permission to have spaces that are not quite finished. A room can be in progress and still feel comfortable and lived in.

I’ve lived with rooms that took time to come together, and looking back, I’m glad I did not rush them. The process helped me make better choices and create a home that truly feels like mine.

It also helps to remember that many of the rooms we admire have been styled for a moment in time. Real homes are lived in. Things get used, moved, and changed, and that is exactly how it should be.

The goal is not perfection. It is creating a home that feels welcoming, comfortable, and right for you.

Patience Tip: Live with a change for a few days before deciding if it works. Your first reaction isn’t always your best one.

If you stay patient and keep practicing what you are learning, your decorating eye will grow, and your home will come together in a way that feels natural and lasting.

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Developing your decorating eye happens over time, one small change at a time. The more you pay attention, practice, and trust what you are learning, the easier decorating becomes. You start to see your home differently, make better choices, and feel more confident in the way your spaces come together.

Give yourself time to grow. Try new ideas, make small adjustments, and enjoy the process along the way. Your home does not need to be perfect. It just needs to feel comfortable, welcoming, and right for you.

And the more you work at it, the more you will love what you see.

Frequently Asked Questions About Developing Your Decorating Eye

Learning to see your home like a decorator takes a little practice, but it’s something anyone can do. Here are a few helpful answers to common questions I’m often asked.

How do I develop a decorating eye?

Start by paying closer attention to your home and the rooms you love. Notice color, balance, and how items are arranged. Take pictures of your space, make small changes, and keep adjusting until things feel right. Over time, you will begin to recognize what works and trust your choices more.

Why does my home feel off, even though I like everything in it?

This usually comes down to a lack of connection between elements. Colors may not relate, items may not be balanced, or there may be too much in one area. When everything works together, a room feels settled. Try editing, simplifying, and sticking to a consistent color palette.

How do I decorate with more confidence?

Focus on using what you already have in new ways. Move items from room to room, restyle surfaces, and remove anything that feels unnecessary. Taking pictures and making small adjustments can make a big difference without spending anything.

How do I decorate with more confidence?

Confidence comes from practice. Start small, make changes, and live with them for a bit. Trust what you are learning as you go. The more you work with your home, the more confident you will feel in your decisions.

What is the biggest mistake beginners make when decorating?

Trying to do too much at once. Adding too many items or mixing too many ideas can make a space feel confusing. Instead, keep things simple, focus on a clear style and color palette, and build from there.

If you want to keep building your decorating skills and feel more confident in your home, these posts will give you even more simple and helpful ideas.

How To Make Your Home Look Expensive
Easy ways to create a polished, high-end look using what you have and making smart decorating choices.

2 Decorating Rules You Should Never Break (Or Almost Never)
A closer look at two important decorating rules that help create balance and a well-styled home.

10 Quick And Easy Tips For Making A Room Look Prettier
Simple ideas you can try right away to refresh a room and make it feel more pulled together.

How To Live With Decor You Don’t Like
Practical tips for working with what you have and making your home feel better without starting over.

5 Easy Ways To Update A Room That Make A Big Difference
Small changes that can quickly refresh a space and give it a new look without a big project.

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Happy decorating, Friends!

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33 Comments

  1. Love! Love! Love this article, Yvonne! I will cut this out and re-read It and begin to use my camera for assistance in decorating. Thanks for the great tips!!

    1. Paula taking pictures of what you decorate will give you a good “critical eye” and help you! Also, it will give you a record of how you decorate from year to year.

  2. Sharonbutler says:

    Hello Yvonne.These are all good ideas. I have been weading out things in my apartment to have less clutter. This will help me see what else to get rid of or keep.I will give this a try with the pics. Wish me luck. I have a bad habbit of holding on to things and letting go.?Thank you for your professional advise.

    1. Kathy Menold says:

      Today on the last day of January with the weather, cold rain all day I spent my time changing my familyroom decor. As I was working on the mantle I tried explaining to my husband how I had to sit back and look at it and change things around till I felt comfortable with it. He looked at me as if I was crazy . Like you said it is half the fun of decorating. ?
      Hope you are not getting snowed in where you live.

      1. We have lots of snow Kathy and I LOVE it! Bring on the snow!!!! I’m one of those rare people that delight in the white stuff! And I love your story. I tell Bobby he does not have to “get it”. LOL!

  3. Sharonbutler says:

    Hello Yvonne.I had posted a comment earlier,dont know what happened to it.So I apologize for another one should you receive two.Love the ideas and lessons you give us. I have been weeding out my apartment to have less clutter. The pic.suggestion will help.Thank you for all the advise and unselfish tips .Your a special and kind person.Wish me luck in weeding out my apartment.Im unnot one that likes to part with things. But I’m trying.Have a Blessed day.lots of Love

  4. Jina Sheppard says:

    Having worked in a retail home store, I agree with your advice whole heartedly. Your advice to look at magazines, and online is priceless. We had a customer that declared her style was modern. As we looked at wall art, she gravitated towards very traditional artwork! Only then did we know to steer her towards more traditional furnishings, and she seemed pleased. So learning one’s general style is important. BTW, your home is gorgeous!

  5. I’m crushing on the rug you have in, I believe your sunroom, can you suggest where to find one like it?
    Beautiful room!

  6. Taking a picture of your space before decorating it is a very interesting tip! Not something that I would have thought to do. I will give it a try!

    1. Hi CJ, I think what you meant is taking images after a space is decorated, right? Yes, taking pictures after a space is decorated will show you so much! I hope you give it a try!

  7. Where is your living room rug from? Thank you!

  8. Ha, I agree with you on everything! I had an undone room for 14 years. because I couldn’t find a piece of art work I liked. I too am a huge proponent of using pictures for inspiration. I wish I had thought of circling the portion of that picture that inspired me. Thank you for your post!

    1. Hi Ana, decorate that room NOW! Sweet friend, don’t get stuck!!!!

  9. I think this is one of your best posts ever! It made me feel that it is okay if things don’t look right at first try when decorating a room. Mostly, it is good to hear a decorating blogger say that our homes are meant to be lived in and things will get dirty and wear out.

  10. Im not a home decorator. Im actually a home stager and an interior designer and staging requires some decoration skills as well. And i have learned lots of decoration tricks from your article. Thank you so much for sharing. I enjoyed reading it.

  11. Chloe Ward says:

    I have always loved the white chair with white cushions. Do you know if it is still available ? I am looking for new chair that is not overstuffed. Always enjoy your design tips. Thank you, Chloe Ward

    1. Hi Chloe, the white spindle chairs came from Ethan Allen. Hope this helps.

  12. Rhonda Tillman says:

    This was very helpful, been trying to figure out my style for years and I think I have narrowed it down to Farmhouse. I definitely have a hard time taking an idea and putting it together in my home and feel like it looks put together like what I have in my mind, but I keep trying and every once in a while it comes together! The tip to break an image down sounds great, will be trying that 🙂

    thanks!

    1. I’m thrilled this post has helped you. Knowing your decorating style is the best thing you can do to help you be a better decorator.

  13. I. recently moved to a new house that has a very large living dinning room combined. I wasn’t sure how to decorate it and have been looking on line for help. I found this article offered the best sound and specific advice that I have come across. Thank you!

    1. Congratulations on your new home, Susan! StoneGable is full is ideas and posts that show you designer secrets you can use at home!

  14. I like the darker shaded accessories you have added to your home…the fern pictures in your living room and your new rug in the sunroom. They ground the look and give depth also. I love all the items you have chosen!??

    1. Thanks, Jan! I’m still on the fence with a few things. I’m glad you like a little bit of black in the living room

  15. Wendie Bergendahl says:

    I appreciate the photos with ideas but am I the only one who notices that almost all of the settings are white on white? I have a mostly neutral palette but it’s not all white.
    I also notice that magazines and posts are encouraging people to add color to walls, etc but when it comes time to decorate for a season, we’re back to white on white.

    Sorry, pet peeve.

    1. Wendie, each to his or her own. I’m glad you feel you can air your “pet peeve” here. I won’t do the same about readers’ comments who feel it’s okay to air their pet peeves. Even if my readers are not fans of my home at least they appreciate my effort and tips.

  16. I find that taking a photo with my phone is very helpful as wel

  17. Picking pictures of beautiful rooms and then picking them apart to show what makes it so would be great posts. It would help us layman have an eye for how to put rooms together. What do you think?

  18. Christy Montgomery says:

    The pillows on your couch are a lovely combination. I find it difficult to order on line because you can’t view the true colors. I would like a link to the pillows you have displayed if they are available. Thank you!